Me ? On Facebook???

So I'm a 50+ using FaceBook-and I have to admit, it's fun but I feel like one of those women who dresses like she's twenty something when she's pushing 60.

How wierd it is to have all of your children as friends(ok not so wierd)but before you know it you now have your kids friends as friends. If the friend is now a very good looking 32 year old male, (instead of the acne laden 13 year old you loved too death, eating you out of house and home)you start feeling just a little creepy.

But you persevere and start inviting people in your ward and neighborhood who are your age, straight laced, mature and "spiritual". All is good until one morning when checking status a friend of a friend of one of your kids who you've added gets a comment that is WAY x-rated.

For instance: The other day there's a picture of 5 young men mooning me on my profile page.

Yikes! I immediately start thinking of this Bishop, or this RS Pres, who I've invited to be my friend. What will they think???

And then there's the whole issure of accepting friends. How do you NOT accept someone's invitation? It's not like their not going to know it. I for instance received an invitaion from a person that I KNOW doesn't like me. What's up with that?

Then there's the whole boundary issue which I'm really pretty tight with. Do I really want my husband talking to 20 year olds who happen to be in our ward and are just adding to their friend list? Does he want me looking up an old boy friend from college? (you know, just because I was curious how he was looking these days). What if he's not so happy and he's still kind of interested and....

Where's it all gonna end